Lost Found Lovers Facts and Fantasies of Rekindled Romances edition by Nancy Kalish PhD Health Fitness Dieting eBooks
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Many adults think about their first loves from time to time, pine over "the one who got away," or wonder "what might have been." Lost love is a timeless theme, immortalized in fiction through countless songs, plays, movies, and television shows.
Nancy Kalish, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology at California State University, Sacramento, is the only researcher who has empirically studied couples who tried rekindled romances. Her book, Lost & Found Lovers Facts and Fantasies of Rekindled Romances, originally published by William Morrow, Inc., describes her international landmark study of 1001 participants; profiles of the adults who tried reunions are given, along with explanations of the phenomenon of lost love reunions, and stories in the words of the men and women who lived them.
Although the original book was published in 1997, the profiles and explanations have remained constant. The only thing that has changed with the Internet explosion is the couples' way of contacting and communicating with each other -- and a higher rate of extramarital affairs. For people who are single, divorced or widowed, reunions are often highly successful. Kalish's research confirms the importance of "puppy love" and should be required reading for parents of teenagers who are dating.
Lost Found Lovers Facts and Fantasies of Rekindled Romances edition by Nancy Kalish PhD Health Fitness Dieting eBooks
Wow! If you have rekindled an old romance and find the reunion to feel "crazy" or intense, you need to read this!I have never had so many "a-ha" moments and giggles while reading before. We are not crazy!
This research mirrored our reunion identically.
We rekindled after 13 years apart at ages 34 and 35. We were FWB that planned to commit later when we matured. That is, until 9/11 happened and he was deployed (he's in the Army). We met the first time at only 13 years old. We shared the same friend circles and old haunts until one day at 21, we were available to date. We were both unable to fully commit due to insecurity we both had after the end of previous relationships. We did this for a year. I went to see him before he deployed, hoping for a commitment and to convert our romantic friendship into an exclusive one. I don't want to share too many details as I'm saving them for my own book. I married someone else. Afte my divorce, I looked for him to discover his family had moved. This was before Facebook or Myspace. None of our mutual friends knew where to find him. I even looked in the phonebook of 2 states. 2 years of searching ended up moot. I moved on again and married a wonderful soldier that I was with until his death at age 33. By then, Facebook was out. My search took 4 minutes. I friended him and within 24 hours we were confessing our love and regets for not doing so sooner.
Within one week, I took off to see him nearly 1000 miles away. The rest is history. We are celebrating 3 years of marriage, 5 years total and 1 child together. This experience has been very passionate, intense and beauiful.
***WORD OF CAUTION***
If you have someone "out there" chances are you will use social media or other technology to reach out. DO NOT DO THIS IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR YOU DISCOVER YOUR LOST LOVE IS MARRIED. Check their profiles first! You may mean innocent in wanting to catch up, but those feelings are still there, dormant. They WILL come back 100x more intensely than the original romance. Marriages and children have been devastated. It is extremely rare to be able to contain these emotions after contact.
If you're single,divorced or widowed and discover your LL is also available, GO FOR IT! Understand you will feel crazy and things will move quickly.
If you are an innocent spouse or child of one of these reunions, I am so sorry for your pain.
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Lost Found Lovers Facts and Fantasies of Rekindled Romances edition by Nancy Kalish PhD Health Fitness Dieting eBooks Reviews
It’s beautiful. If you’re feeling crazy over a lost love, a past relationship, or an ex, you will find peace and resonance with this book. I’ve cried so many times while reading this, because I no longer feel alone. It’s given me the confidence I need to move forward with my love life.
As Willie Nelson once said, "Most folks aren't with their first choice. That's what keeps the juke-box playing."
The book is a compilation of research. It is not a novel or a book for those who just want stories to read. The heartbreaking parts are true as well. It might help others understand, but it is a 'must read' for parents of teenagers. Think twice before you get involved in your son or daughter's romance.
I stepped off an airplane and proposed after more than 22 years. About a year later, I found this book. Everything in it is exactly as Dr. Kalish describes. In our case, it was my mother that got between us, and we were under the age of 17, just as the research predicts. It's been almost six years now and we're as happy as ever.
Today I consider myself extremely lucky. Other people will not understand. If the book is right, they can't. It truly is a case of "you had to be there." Knowing why I feel this way does not diminish it one bit. In fact, we both see ourselves more clearly in some ways. The reviewer who said that she know that she shouldn't contact her ex is also probably right and so is the ex-husband who found the book helpful. You would have to read the book to understand the paradox. Our situation worked out the best for us and for those around us. It is not always like that.
I got this book while in the throws of getting back together with a long lost girlfriend. It was as the book describes as an instant connection both emotionally and physically. It was as if we never apart in the first place. It all started again with a one time meeting with high school friends. Soon we were texting and calling each other constantly. Their was a small catch though, I was married and had a family. Over taken by the love bug I left it behind in the beginning. I didn't even have a bad marriage maybe just hit low point between being busy with family and bills and neglected each other. Fast forward a few years to now I just divorced this year but it cost me a house(foreclosed), classic car, and a family. I now miss my two son's every day and surprisingly my wife's company. My oldest teen age son won't talk to me and my younger Autistic son who could use my help. Any time I'm with my girlfriend I'm racked with thoughts of the 15 year marriage and family so it makes most of the time miserable despite the best efforts to put a happy face on for my girlfriend.I'm full of regret much of these days. I'm wishing I hadn't done it these days.
I'd advise anyone contemplating contacting someone while still married to think long and hard before doing so. Read the book as it's full of wonderful stories. If you are free of other relationships I'd say go for it cause it a wonderful thing.
Well...I thought it was a rare event to hear from my HS boyfriend after 53 years, both of us widowed. I soon learned that reconnecting with a "lost" love is anything but rare. I enjoyed reading the various stories and comparing them to mine although those in my age bracket weren't so plentiful. Almost ordered another book by the author, but decided to leave well enough alone for now. My "old bf" and I are happy in case you are wondering. We think it's short of a miracle that we got together. In fact, we thank Al Gore because he thinks he invented the Internet. Without the Internet I'd never have been found.
Wow! If you have rekindled an old romance and find the reunion to feel "crazy" or intense, you need to read this!
I have never had so many "a-ha" moments and giggles while reading before. We are not crazy!
This research mirrored our reunion identically.
We rekindled after 13 years apart at ages 34 and 35. We were FWB that planned to commit later when we matured. That is, until 9/11 happened and he was deployed (he's in the Army). We met the first time at only 13 years old. We shared the same friend circles and old haunts until one day at 21, we were available to date. We were both unable to fully commit due to insecurity we both had after the end of previous relationships. We did this for a year. I went to see him before he deployed, hoping for a commitment and to convert our romantic friendship into an exclusive one. I don't want to share too many details as I'm saving them for my own book. I married someone else. Afte my divorce, I looked for him to discover his family had moved. This was before Facebook or Myspace. None of our mutual friends knew where to find him. I even looked in the phonebook of 2 states. 2 years of searching ended up moot. I moved on again and married a wonderful soldier that I was with until his death at age 33. By then, Facebook was out. My search took 4 minutes. I friended him and within 24 hours we were confessing our love and regets for not doing so sooner.
Within one week, I took off to see him nearly 1000 miles away. The rest is history. We are celebrating 3 years of marriage, 5 years total and 1 child together. This experience has been very passionate, intense and beauiful.
***WORD OF CAUTION***
If you have someone "out there" chances are you will use social media or other technology to reach out. DO NOT DO THIS IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR YOU DISCOVER YOUR LOST LOVE IS MARRIED. Check their profiles first! You may mean innocent in wanting to catch up, but those feelings are still there, dormant. They WILL come back 100x more intensely than the original romance. Marriages and children have been devastated. It is extremely rare to be able to contain these emotions after contact.
If you're single,divorced or widowed and discover your LL is also available, GO FOR IT! Understand you will feel crazy and things will move quickly.
If you are an innocent spouse or child of one of these reunions, I am so sorry for your pain.
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